8920g from ATI - nvidia, problem!

My ATI 3650 died so i bought a 9650m gt (found it cheap on ebay), but i have a problem finding a driver, or rather a nvidia control panel, that installs. If i go to nvidia and download the latest drivers for this specific card it will just say that it doesnt find any compatible drivers for my card when i do the install. If i download the latest drivers from Acer's site (old Vista drivers), it'll install the driver but not the control panel.

I can also install the latest Win7 drivers if i do it manually, but again, it wont install with a control panel.

Any solution to this?

I've reinstalled my OS (Win7 x86)
I've updated to the latest BIOS for the notebook.

GPUZ pic: http://piclair.com/data/c1cfv.jpg

maybe it's just not possible to run this card with this laptop :/ maybe possbile to flash it or something?

 

I came up against this on Vista with a geforcego6100... and asked about it on here.
It seems most laptop drivers are unique and have a specific .inf file allocated to them.
I did find by using the options in device manager and searching for "compatable hardware" that other drivers were listed by Microsoft. I made a full backup and tried installing and found a later one that worked great... and strange to say windows update only last week offered the latest NVidia driver which seems good... loads of new options in control panel.

http://forum.notebookreview.com/acer/393954-forcing-driver-pc-how-do-you-do.html

 

Thanks a lot Mooly, lot of good info in that thread it seems